I went away two weekends in a row recently, both trips for fun, to North Carolina and came home with two totally different dispositions and attitudes. One was an impatient, irritated & tired Carla. The other was a peaceful, joyful and alert Carla.
Both trips were to the mountains and both involved a lot of driving and staying up late. However, what differed the most, and what I believe contributed to the divergence in attitude, was the food I ate.
Food affects our attitudes and how we deal with emotions. I have seen how this is true in my own life, following a mostly low-fat raw vegan diet for almost a year and by noticing a change in my demeanor & my abilities to cope with the harder parts of life when I slack off.
At home I eat a very simple, clean and water dense diet. On the road I eat well, however, inevitably, my standards slip to a degree based on availability and choice. The more disciplined I am with myself on the road, the better my trip tends to be. It’s the opposite of this jail study:
“The UK prison trial at Aylesbury jail showed that when young men were fed multivitamins, minerals and essential fatty acids, the number of violent offenses they committed in the prison fell by 37%.
Although no one is suggesting that poor diet alone can account for complex social problems, the former chief inspector of prisons Lord Ramsbotham says that he is now “absolutely convinced that there is a direct link between diet and antisocial behavior, both that bad diet causes bad behavior and that good diet prevents it.”
My first of two weekends away to Asheville, NC, I became unfit for human interaction (ok, I exaggerate a wee bit). I ate bittersweet chocolate, beans, cooked veggies, tortillas, then fried eggplant and sweet potato fries, then shrimp and rice noodles.
No one food was “bad” per se, but collectively these cooked foods which I rarely eat stacked up against my preferred pleasant disposition. By the time we were ready to get on the road home, I was snapping at my daughter (sorry honey!), frustrated with the service personnel, stressed out and working myself into an anxiety-riddled tailspin.
I didn’t like it at all! (Neither did anyone else, I’m sure.)
I’m convinced that my body was starving for oxygen because that’s how I felt: short of breath, unsatisfied on a cellular level, dehydrated & energetically congested. Drinking 4 bottles of water one night helped, but replacing water that was removed from food by cooking it is second rate to eating food that has its water still intact.
I am convinced that I live more “in the flow” – that sweet spot state of being when you immerse in the present, guide each moment to the next through the effortless action of an aligned mind and body & soul – when I am well hydrated by water-dense foods.
The second of my my two weekends away to WildAcres Retreat in Little Switzerland, NC, I maintained. I ate some cooked veggies, but had a big fresh, raw salad without dressing with every lunch and dinner. No chocolate, nothing fried and I overpowered the cooked with the raw. I returned home feeling as well as I do when home.
Could attitude be as simple as diet? Perhaps.
Food affects brain chemistry, energy, pH & overall internal balance. Food would certainly play a strong role in all of these factors and collectively they can impact how we feel and how we manage how we feel whereby determining our attitude.
Negative emotions also generate additional metabolic acids, so a poor diet leading to difficult attitudes can cause more of the same in a vicious loop. Gratitude, contentment and joy can alkalize the body. Anger and resentment are acid-forming emotions.
Keep your diet as simple as you’d like your life to be. I prefer my life uncomplicated, fresh, clean, honest, clear, manageable & joyful and, therefore, I eat accordingly. I choose to stay away from fast food emotions which lead to dollar menu experiences. I’d much rather eat 8 oranges from the grocery store than visit any drive-through.
Don’t take my word for it, conduct an experiment for & on yourself. Keep a food diary for a month (or a week or two or three) and chart your food and your feelings. If you’ve been struggling with anger, jealousy, stress, worry, anxiety, fear or impatience, see if you can simplify your diet by scaling back on acid forming foods and increase alkalizing foods.
Perhaps you will notice your attitude begin to alkalize. Your diet can become your spiritual practice through which you learn to grow into a more wholesome expression of yourself.
I feel confident in promising you that you will notice a difference. If you want to become more peaceful, patient, grateful & joyful, shift your diet to one that energetically & nutritionally promotes wellbeing, positivity & peace. Get started with a free session of Fruit Til Five™! Your tomorrow body will thank you for it!
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Thanks for sharing these two experiences, Carla. Interesting that your crummy food experience was in Asheville where so many people find healthy food solace. In reading your menu items though I’ll admit I’m not a fan if much of that (except maybe the chocolate, but even now that’s rare).
So interesting how your disposition was drastically changed by your healthy and unusual food differences.
Not to dispute you, but just asking: do you think a person who ends up eating what they’re not used to eating when they’re away from home (a disrupting experience to begin with, being away from home) would be unhappy and cranky even if their regular diet is burgers and fries but they end up with choices only of salads and veggies?
I’m sure I’d be unhappy with cooked eggplant, any kind of fries, beans, tortillas and shrimp–all kind of hard to digest.
Just wondering.
I’m very glad you were able to salad-ize your way to happiness at Wildacres. Your flower photos were gorgeous.
Asheville food is beautiful! There is no doubt about it. It’s a lovely foodie town and one of my favorites, for certain. However, I eat so simply at home and anything complex confuses my system.
Local, vegetarian and/or vegan cooking can all be very complex especially when leaning towards the artisan & gourmet.
I think that if a person whose usual fare is burgers and fries who goes out of town and eats salads and veggies will be cranking because they will be thrown, perhaps, into a detoxifying/cleansing reaction.
If you look at my Food Diary you can see that my diet is heavy in fruits & vegetables even when out of town, however eating my way through Asheville tipped my balance.
Food Diary: https://www.carlagoldenwellness.com/2012/10/09/my-very-honest-ongoing-food-diary/
Thank you so much for writing Jan! I always appreciate digging deeper.
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Wonderful post, Carla. It also emphasizes how much people are out of touch with their bodies in general, but especially when it comes to a body’s response to certain foods.
I also ventured to your post “9 Ways Eating Can Become Your New Spiritual Practice” and found it most refreshing! I couldn’t agree more that everything surrounding food growing, harvesting, preparation and clean-up is an opportunity for meditation and spiritual growth!
So glad you enjoyed the two posts, Cyd! Thank you for taking the time to comment. 🙂
Thoughts, emotions and health are inter-dependent, each affects the others. Now I can add food ph to this circular pattern. Sounds holistic to me.
Great Paul! Glad you found this additional information useful. Thanks for taking the time to read & comment!