Feel. Eat. Choose One.

One of the subjects that stopped me in my tracks while reading Dr. Douglas Graham’s 80/10/10 was Emotional Eating. Not so much the fact that often times we eat because we want to feel something different (numb, full, indulged, safe, comforted, happy, etc.) even when we’re not hungry, but rather the physiology behind this habit or crutch.

Dr. Graham writes “the digestion of food and the conduction of emotions each demand so much energy that they cannot be performed simultaneously.”

WOW!

So we can eat or we can feel. Most of the time we do a bit of both: not eat too much and not feel too little. However when we are distraught or manic, we turn in one of two directions: we either eat copious amounts of comfort food (generally high fat) to stop the ability to feel intensely, or we can not eat even if we try. While experiencing extreme emotions we turn to extreme eating practices, however this generally is not our everyday mode, yet emotions and eating take place to varying degrees daily which cumulatively affect us profoundly.

As we go and grow through life sorting out the pieces of our existential puzzle, oftentimes we want to get to a new place within ourselves but we are stuck. Eating a clean diet not only cleanses the physical cells and helps metabolic and dietary waste leave our bodies, but we also cleanse our emotional and spiritual bodies of waste.

I am reminded of a post I wrote back in November of 2008 titled Emotional McDonald’s and I reflect on how my dietary and emotional life has changed dramatically since then by “upping” my game with the way I eat. I eat to nourish my body but equally I eat cleanly in order to keep my mind and heart clear. I have sorted through so much emotional and spiritual congestion in the past few years and I know that my diet has played an integral and supportive part.

If you want to get unstuck from where you are and can’t figure out how to do it emotionally or spiritually, then start with your diet. Increase the amount of fresh, raw fruit and vegetables you consume, reduce the amount of animal products and watch your body, mind and spirit transform. It will amaze you! Eating fresh, raw fruit is as close to fasting as one can get while eating and staying satiated because the fruit sugars (fructose) are digested easily and absorbed by the body through the intestinal lining with minimal effort or demand.*

An apple a day (rather 2,3, or 4!) keeps the doctor….general physician and psychiatrist both…away! When eating from God’s Kitchen, you tap into a divine source that will support your authentic growth and take you to new heights within yourself.

“As we lighten our diets to vegetarian, vegan and eventually raw, we quite commonly become more aware of our emotional selves…As one lightens the digestive load by switching to raw foods, the body suddenly has more nerve energy to conduct emotions, and emotions suppressed over the years begin to emerge.” Dr. Douglas Graham

I grew this apple especially for you. God

So great!

* “Before our cells can utilize any food for fuel, whether it contains primarily carbohydrate, protein, or fat, it must first be converted into simple sugars. Carbohydrates are by far the easiest to convert to useful sugars. Glucose (a simple sugar, like fructose) is the primary, preferred source of fuel for every tissue and cell of our bodies. In fact, some of our cells (the brain, red blood cells, and some nervous tissue, for example) depend almost exclusively on glucose as their fuel source…As a category, fruits are our least toxic food choice. They digest cleanly, leaving only water as residue, which is easily expelled from the body.” Dr. Douglas Graham 80/10/10

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Tessa November 6, 2012 at 11:09 am

I loved this article. Thank you for your hard work, and wonderful writing!
Tessa & Abby

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Carla Golden November 6, 2012 at 3:50 pm

Thank you Tessa for taking the time to leave your kind comment here! <3

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Donna January 21, 2013 at 10:56 am

Carla, thank you for each and every article you have posted. It is great to see this unfolding of yourself in the last few.
My take on what you are doing/writing/sharing is as follows: All this excavating although painful, has resulted in an enrichment of your life….like a flower opening. AND your completely honest words are giving help/hope and support to others.
I have been extremely fortunate not to have been raped in my childhood but was sexually assaulted twice that I recall.. The rape came after I was married, by my husband.. ( society’s view in the 70’s left me without resources at the time and so it was buried deep) The implications of that seemed more emotionally devastating to me than anything previous. Your latest posting has brought to my attention the need to PUT A NAME to these assaults, which I am sure will result in some changes and healing from things I did not (consciously) know existed in my cellular memory.
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Thank you Carla… and know that many others applaud and support you. Here’s to the ‘new you’

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Carla Golden January 21, 2013 at 11:19 am

Thank you Donna. I’m so sorry to learn of your experience yet am grateful that my originating post help you dive deeper. A lot of feathers ruffled in my family when I began to refer to “the episode” as rape. Somehow the situation being in-family, the word rape was too harsh & ugly though if anyone outside the family had done the same thing, rape would have been the obvious word. Referring to a rape as a sexual assault makes it more palatable for others, however it leaves the raped feeling misunderstood and unheard. Call it what you need to call it Donna for your own healing and know that I deeply understand that even though you were in a sexual relationship with your husband that you could still be raped. Namaste, xo-C.

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paul spivack June 8, 2015 at 7:29 pm

This article may, in part, explain my current ambivalence and dilemma.

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Carla Golden June 8, 2015 at 8:00 pm

Perhaps some fasting (juice fast, water fast, super light eating, one meal a day, etc. ) will amplify and clarify your feelings.

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